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Discover the Insider Tips, Techniques
& Practical HOW TO's That You Need to Know to For making the Most of Marriage and Relation Type Challenges, like Divorce and Other Inevitabilities.
At Last! Answers and step-by-step guidelines to make a difference for BOTH marriage and divorce processes...
Until Death Do Us Part...
Come and Learn and Discover MORE about Marriage, Divorce and Related MATTERS FOR YOUR CIRCUMSTANCE AND PERSONAL SITUATION
Marriage Secrets Learn about the benefits, risks, rewards, pains and realities of this give-and-take type relationship dynamic that is love, marriage and divorce
Marriage Secrets Take journey on the path of marriage and divorce that will take you down the path of Looking In The Mirror Loving Yourself Before You Can Love Your Partner
The REAL meaning of For Better Or For Worse
Marriage Secrets The value of Interaction, Dialogue And Communication in and throughout the process and journey or divorce and marriage
When it comes to our deepest, most intimate relationships with our live partner, soul mates and the ones we love, loved or have lots all commonalities with THE CYCLE OF LIFE IS WELL AND PRESENT! There is good, bad and ugly to consider.
HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP, JOURNEY and
WHAT IS YOUR DESTINATION, DESTINY AND ROUTES YOU ARE TAKING FOR YOUR BOND, MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE
Are you there... where shattered dreams of your knight in shining armor brought him tumbling off his horse where notions of happily living ever after disintegrated into an after taste of a lovely fresh breeze turned stale, where growing resentment has overtaken your intense longing for true fulfillment in your most precious relationship on this earth. Did this gnawing sense of depravity and failure leave you staggering under loads of mixed emotions, milling around in endless circles, clutching desperately at feeble straws of if only's for your last shot at the elusive pot of gold at the end of the simply wanting to be happy rainbow in marriage? Is fulfillment too much to ask in life, or is it just reserved for some fortunate souls?
Are you slowly drifting, drawn increasingly stronger downstream towards the inevitable that you are dreading deep inside? Are you exhausted, worn out emotionally to the point of giving up your labored struggles and just wanting to let go - over that cliff to where it wouldn't keep hurting so much anymore? Where the tangible, searing sense of being lost will not be so vivid but mercifully be swallowed up in the violent thunderous waterfall that will maul you under and abruptly end the misery.
Have you been there where some slight provocation sends you erupting like a volcano, spewing embers all over those you are supposed to dearly love and tenderly nurture followed by the guilt, like molten lava slowly cremating your bare soul ? Have you been where the undiluted pain, deep down inside, has you winding wearily along the barrenness of your desert road where unnamed shadows and indulgences beacon tantalizingly towards escape for a blissful while, but then may suck you down even further?
Is your unsteady grip slowly slipping into some surreal world that is losing its meaning and significance for you? Have things lost their purpose for you are you wandering aimlessly along through days that come and go, filled with all the good things you so well know you aught to be thankful for just, they don't seem to matter so much any more, anyway obscured by the confusion clouding you up inside. Some spouses compared this state of emotional turmoil brought about by relational challenges and marital conflict to journeying to hell and back with fleeting moments of heaven now and then.
To hang onto your sanity, some profound decisions may have to be made here, that will cut to your core and may change the rest of your life forever ... as well as many lives around you that share this world with you, who will be affected irrevocably by what you choose. Then there is the dire and instinctive need to re-establish inner balance, outer stability and some sense that life may still contain some shimmer of hope and significance that could be an incentive to get up in the morning and attempt this precarious process of rebuilding that what shattered so painfully.
If you have experienced a similar journey, then, maybe this book is for you - to help you look at some facts, possibilities, choices and consequences. This may be a watershed decision for you, and not to be taken lightly.
In this world we live in people have so many perspectives which may differ substantially from your own. In our post modern society many values and principles that used to be so clear cut and sharp edged seem to fizzle out into a more relaxed picture with blurred edges, where everything seem to become more relative and subject to how people experience them.
This e-book will help you make MORE sense of MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE. Come learn, discover and unearth truths, secrets and revelations about the challenges, obstacles and opportunities, emotions and closure issues that come up as a result of and during good times and bad!
Brokering solutions for marriage and divorce: Communication And Dialoguing Skills: Moving Forward Towards Results
Working through and with Conflict And Anger
Moving beyond and FORWARD - Forgive And Befriend!
The role and importance of Sex in and through marriage and divorce processes and outcomes
Gender Differences And Expectations
MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE IS NOT EASY!
The problem is that we tend to build shields around us throughout the years as a defense mechanism, to protect us against emotional hurt, or to provide us with an escape route because we sometimes struggle to cope with some aspects of reality.
There are MANY REASONS WHY MARRIAGES AND EVEN DIVORCE SUCCEED OR FAIL MISERABLY
All of us need our daily portion of praise, love and acceptance to nurture our souls without it we starve emotionally. Sadly, this is what we sometimes withhold from another, being so quick to criticize and slow to praise, destroying the self-confidence of those around us, fostering a negative atmosphere which breeds people who love out of duty, without them feeling it authentically in their hearts, unable to properly love, since they did not receive love or praise, sometimes destined to a life of loneliness and searching.
Lack of parental approval and blessing may haunt some people, especially men, for the rest of their lives, creating havoc in their abilities to connect emotionally and sustain meaningful long term relationships like in marriage. Some men will court their wives, and when they married them, will promptly return to trying to earn their father's approval, some till their last breath.
A person that's unable to love him or herself, may find it difficult to get along with others, may be hostile and critical, and may have a general negative approach to life. Without self-love there can be no true love for others, and sometimes even an inability to love others.
And many MORE!
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Unearth the real truth about what it takes to plan, prepare, move and grow through, survive and even thrive again! Read about the revelations and basics regarding MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE
This ebook will take you on the journey from start to finish, making sense of things like:
Reality Checks for marriage and divorce
Divorce Hell Or Bliss
Money matters and Dollar Talk in and through marriage and divorce proceedings
Emotional Impact of marriage and divorce
Other considerations and consequences, like placing Kids In The Crossfire
There are lots that you and others can do in and through these relationships, contracts and unfolding processes to broker a positive outcome
If you desire your most special relationship to survive and start thriving, change will have to come from within yourself, even though your partner may not be too kind and generous to you.
Nobody can change another person change and the desire to move forward must come from within him or herself.
The desire to change and improve, revive and rewrite this script that has lost its original meaning for you both, may be prompted and encouraged if you start in simple ways to show love, understanding and empathy for your spouse.
One way how care can be shown is to do things for your partner that will make life easier, with out expecting reward in return.
The easiest place to start, therefore, is within your own self. Work on your attitude first. Much of changing an attitude is about a decision of one's will to want to change and grow.
Try to get to understand who your really are inside and how you feel and think about things. Write those things down in order of importance to you.
A conscious decision to see the positive side of things and events, and always to comment positively on what's happening or none at all, will go a long way to change your personal outlook on life to come from a positive base.
Here are just some MORE of the realities and challenges you face for MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE IN ITS DIFFERENT STAGES, STATES and PHASES
A marriage can not really move forward in the long term unless a real multi level relationship has developed between the partners. Making a positive impact means coming from a positive base all the time, since change won't happen coming from a negative and critical base.
To be a positive person is in itself attractive and encouraging to those around you.
Have a sense of humor and choose to smile and focus outwardly and on the positive, in stead of getting caught up focusing continuously inwardly on your hurt and discomfort, which will keep you milling around in endless circles going nowhere and causing much frustration to yourself and may repel many around you.
Negative attitudes will cause people to label and avoid you, which will cause you to feel even more isolated and unhappy. Not being in touch with your own inner feelings about real life and issues and not knowing yourself may leave you unable to properly communicate or share on an emotional level with your partner to let him or her understand how you really feel deep down about things, so he or she can walk with you and help you to deal with issues.
This guide will help you BETTER MAKE SENSE OF THE CHALLENGES, FEARS, EMOTIONS, ACTIONS AND PRE-CAUTIONS THAT YOU CAN TAKE, SELF-PRESERVATION, CORRECTIVE AND PREVENTATIVE, EVEN RESTORATIVE ACTIONS TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE FOR ALL PARTIES INVOLVED!
The inability to share heartfelt feelings or insensitivity or disrespecting each other may leave partners with an experience of being lost and drifting while life slowly loses it's luster, meaning and significance for them.
Without connecting emotionally each one is on an individual mission, with little in common.
Even good sex can not make up for the lack of deep and sincere emotional connection in which you may discover the riches hidden in the personality of the other one treasures that are waiting to be discovered, and treasures of very deep and meaningful sharing of each other's deepest feelings.
Huge trust is involved here and true exquisite romance and sensuality takes on a whole new meaning when partners enter with each other into the wonder of this deepest of communication levels.
We're all just human and imperfect and prone to mistakes and failures.
SOMETIMES IT IS THE COUNTERINTUITIVE AND LESS LIKELY OPTIONS THAT REAP THE BIGGEST REWARD!
The opposite approach may bear much more fruit much quicker than you think.
MARRIAGE IS WELL AND GOOD, BUT WHAT ABOUT DIVORCE??WHAT IF THERE IS NO OTHER WAY.
PROBE THE DEEPER ASPECTS, ALL AREAS, DIMENSIONS AND CONSEQUENCES OF DIVORCE!
As to divorce, the tendency is that couples jump right to that extreme, unfortunately without trying out the many alternatives that may be less final and brutally hurtful. Unfortunately many lawyers encourage this trend because of financial gain. It has become too easy - only a phone call away - and too acceptable.
Divorces always hurt and is a invariably a lose lose situation, generally speaking. Hasty divorces, without self examination to discover the root causes of problems, may lead to a repetition of previous mistakes in the next marriage.
Statistics have shown that 50% of remarried divorcees will divorce again, since they repeat the same mistakes and they don't learn to get to know themselves and their feelings intimately, so their issues and frustrations about self love, acceptance, rejection, etc. may resurface again, with the same destructive consequences.
Lots of trouble and brokenness and negative effects may continue through the generations, and doubt, guilt and lack of self respect continue to wreak havoc in the lives of children from broken homes.
If partners have no kids, and have exhausted the many avenues for help and still consider themselves to be incompatible, it may be better to end it and search for somebody with some more natural chemical attraction and compatibility.
The tendency is that couples that married very young, depending on which support systems are available to them, often need to work harder at building a good marriage, than those that waited till their mid to late twenties.
Losing a partner through divorce seems to cause the same grief process to commence than if the partner had passed away. The death of a relationship causes untold heartache for those involved, and sometimes never gets healed completely during the course of even a whole life time. The dream of any divorcee is never to hurt anyone but it always invariably happens. In our materialistic and consumer oriented society today where problem causing phenomena are easily disposed of, and our age of individualism that says It's all about me, people often ask How much can I get out of this relationship, and unfortunately not How much can I contribute and build into this relationship. If the focus is inward on me problems may arise in relationships.
HOWEVER THERE IS HOPE TOO
WHEN the focus is on serving the other person in the relationship unselfishly, the rewards may include a reawakening of love, affection and tenderness.
Where kids are involved, the parents are joined forever through them and divorce should not really be considered, as studies have shown the far reaching and powerful destructive effect that even the most civilized and clean break ups had on the children.
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